I know many of you will be wondering what my responce to her request was, well i guess you have to wait for that. As i said earlier, this was just the begining of the first semester and i really did not have friends except for a few.After the first semester break , i discover that many people were now looking for me not to harm me but to become my friend , this was due to my performance during the exam, i became the toast of my department and my friend were now does who wanted to contest with me or displace at the top of the class.
A little gap was now created between myself and Lizzy, she moved on with her life and we only see each other ones in a while.As we proceed with the primary assignment of being students i realise that she doesn't spend much of her time in school most especially during weekends.i introduced her to one of my close friend and later discover that they have started sleeping together.As guys will always be guys we share details of our conquest and all you need to do to sleep with her and before you know it ,almost all the guys i know have slept with her.
She later moved on to become one of the big girls in school,organising parties and also organising girls for events within and outside the school.She see nothing wrong with sleeping with friends infact this has became her favourite pastime. She slept with my friends and she did not hide this from me as a matter of fact she confessed to me that she can feature in a pornogrphic movie if invited.
I remember a story i heard about her .Some aristos(sugar daddy) requested for her service they needed three girls plus her and she fulfilled her end of the bargain by supplying this girls. The men picked them one by one for the night, they had a nice time . On the second day of the party, the young brother of the organizer who happened to be the one that picked Lizzy came for her visit and within a short period of his arrival no one knows what happened .Lizzy just decided to spend the night with the younger brother.The older brother was so pissed off that he just could not wait for the morning to come before sending her out of the building.
Knowing her usual self ,she did not regret her actions,even after discovering that one of her girls ended marrying one of these millionnaire guys,she was still no perturbed,she simply took it with a pinch of salt.By the time we left school and move into the bigger society ,she was unable to recollect the numbers of guys she slept with while she was a student.she confided in a lady friend that she really need deliverance, that whenever she has the urge for sex she does not care whether the guy is sane or insane, rich or poor, tall or short , as long as you have the 'joy stick' she is all yours.
i know many of you will be wondering why i am boring you with this story all i want is your opinion about this story.
I really want to know,WHAT COULD HAVE LED HER TO SUCH AN ADDICTION, WHO COULD BE RESPONSIBLE AND HOW YOU THINK SHE CAN OVERCOME THIS ADDICTION.IS IT REALLY TRUE THAT HER PARENTS ARE BLAMELESS.
I have my own answers to these questions but i will really need your own opinion,because the last time i saw her she has realised that it is a problem and does not know how to overcome this problem.
waiting for your opinion.Then i will give you mine.
Concerning whether i had sex with her or not ,the answer is What will you do?
Friday, December 28, 2007
"WILL YOU HAVE SEX WITH ME"?
This is a real life story something That happened to me 12years ago while i was in the university.Though it is true i will still have to change the names of the characters in this story.
Her name is Lizzy, she was 17 when we met in school, we started out as friends and we became a little bit closer, it was just about a month of me getting to school when i met her, she was in the same department with me.One thing i noticed about her was the fact that we have only spent such a short time in school but she knows almost evryone in my department and even some of the Lectures. She took a liking tome that she always lookforward to seeing me and being with me,though iwas not that excited about her.,i torlorated her simply because i was not making much friends.
I have one thing going for me, even till date, i have the tendency of being friendly with the opposite sex without having the mind of having sex or making love with them(whatever you choose to call it). Don't get me wrong i was not a born again child of God then, so i also had it in mind to have girl friends, but Lizzy was not in my mind all i wanted was somebody i could talk to without strings attached, i want to make a pick but not with the first girl that comes my way.
Lizzy became very attached to me to the extent of sharing personal issues with me , she began by telling me about her family how influential and well to do they are in the society and how terrible a child she has been in that family she gave me the picture of being the black sheep in her family , she said "you will not belive that my parents had a sort of mixed feelings when i gained addnission into the university, as a matter of fact , a family meeting was called over me a day to my departure, my grand mother was there and my father stood up to say that the family name has been built with hard work and honesty, and the family is a respected one in the society,he then pleaded with me not to rubbish all the work done by my escapades in the university,i raelly sincerely promised not to ridicule the family name and that i will face my studies, but unfortunately i have not kept my word"
I then asked her what she has done already knowing fully well that we have just resumed into the university,she said " i have a lot of boyfriends in school already and i have slept with them all" I then realise that her escapades has alot to do with sex. She said to me "do you know why my parents called that meeting?' I said no. "Well i have been a bad girl sexually,i don't stay at home and always going about with different catergories of boy/men,you will be amazed that they do not have to offer me any reward for sleeping with me all they need to do is call me on the phone invite me to any eatery,buy a bottle of soft drink and meat pie and we head for his home and have a good time together, my parents have done all they could , physically, spiritually and more but there has been no changes in me, infact they are completely feed up" I could not believe what i was hearing,she is just 17 with a lot os exploit in sex,i became disappointed even disgusted in her.
Days follow and my attitude towards her change i became insultive towards her, call her names at every little provocation to the extent that she now had to call me, She said "is it because of the things i told you about myself that you have decided to start insulting me? infact i have started regreting my revealing my self to you?' i then realised that i have really been a jerk, ifelt really bad at my actions and promised to change my ways.Suprisingly i did, i became nice to her and our friendship became closer ,i now visit her home and got to know her school friends.I also introduce her to some of my male friends and we still meet in school to talk,but i did not invite her to my place even though i was leaving alone.
I believe she noticed this,because on a particular day in school,she called me aside and said 'i had a dream last nite,it was about you, i dramt that you invited me over to your place made some food for us to eat, and after that you made passionate love with me" i was shocked and all i could do was smile,imagine what other form of invitation do you need from a girl,but i was scared,not with the issues of sexually transmitted diseases all over and imagine,that was the period when HIV was becoming more and more popular and with all her exploits who knows what could happen,with research showing that condom is not 100% safe, i became scared.
I told my friends and you know guys, they encourage me to sleep with her , i was not forth coming she then said " WILL YOU HAVE SEX WITH ME"
TO BE CONTINUED
Her name is Lizzy, she was 17 when we met in school, we started out as friends and we became a little bit closer, it was just about a month of me getting to school when i met her, she was in the same department with me.One thing i noticed about her was the fact that we have only spent such a short time in school but she knows almost evryone in my department and even some of the Lectures. She took a liking tome that she always lookforward to seeing me and being with me,though iwas not that excited about her.,i torlorated her simply because i was not making much friends.
I have one thing going for me, even till date, i have the tendency of being friendly with the opposite sex without having the mind of having sex or making love with them(whatever you choose to call it). Don't get me wrong i was not a born again child of God then, so i also had it in mind to have girl friends, but Lizzy was not in my mind all i wanted was somebody i could talk to without strings attached, i want to make a pick but not with the first girl that comes my way.
Lizzy became very attached to me to the extent of sharing personal issues with me , she began by telling me about her family how influential and well to do they are in the society and how terrible a child she has been in that family she gave me the picture of being the black sheep in her family , she said "you will not belive that my parents had a sort of mixed feelings when i gained addnission into the university, as a matter of fact , a family meeting was called over me a day to my departure, my grand mother was there and my father stood up to say that the family name has been built with hard work and honesty, and the family is a respected one in the society,he then pleaded with me not to rubbish all the work done by my escapades in the university,i raelly sincerely promised not to ridicule the family name and that i will face my studies, but unfortunately i have not kept my word"
I then asked her what she has done already knowing fully well that we have just resumed into the university,she said " i have a lot of boyfriends in school already and i have slept with them all" I then realise that her escapades has alot to do with sex. She said to me "do you know why my parents called that meeting?' I said no. "Well i have been a bad girl sexually,i don't stay at home and always going about with different catergories of boy/men,you will be amazed that they do not have to offer me any reward for sleeping with me all they need to do is call me on the phone invite me to any eatery,buy a bottle of soft drink and meat pie and we head for his home and have a good time together, my parents have done all they could , physically, spiritually and more but there has been no changes in me, infact they are completely feed up" I could not believe what i was hearing,she is just 17 with a lot os exploit in sex,i became disappointed even disgusted in her.
Days follow and my attitude towards her change i became insultive towards her, call her names at every little provocation to the extent that she now had to call me, She said "is it because of the things i told you about myself that you have decided to start insulting me? infact i have started regreting my revealing my self to you?' i then realised that i have really been a jerk, ifelt really bad at my actions and promised to change my ways.Suprisingly i did, i became nice to her and our friendship became closer ,i now visit her home and got to know her school friends.I also introduce her to some of my male friends and we still meet in school to talk,but i did not invite her to my place even though i was leaving alone.
I believe she noticed this,because on a particular day in school,she called me aside and said 'i had a dream last nite,it was about you, i dramt that you invited me over to your place made some food for us to eat, and after that you made passionate love with me" i was shocked and all i could do was smile,imagine what other form of invitation do you need from a girl,but i was scared,not with the issues of sexually transmitted diseases all over and imagine,that was the period when HIV was becoming more and more popular and with all her exploits who knows what could happen,with research showing that condom is not 100% safe, i became scared.
I told my friends and you know guys, they encourage me to sleep with her , i was not forth coming she then said " WILL YOU HAVE SEX WITH ME"
TO BE CONTINUED
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