This is a real life story something That happened to me 12years ago while i was in the university.Though it is true i will still have to change the names of the characters in this story.
Her name is Lizzy, she was 17 when we met in school, we started out as friends and we became a little bit closer, it was just about a month of me getting to school when i met her, she was in the same department with me.One thing i noticed about her was the fact that we have only spent such a short time in school but she knows almost evryone in my department and even some of the Lectures. She took a liking tome that she always lookforward to seeing me and being with me,though iwas not that excited about her.,i torlorated her simply because i was not making much friends.
I have one thing going for me, even till date, i have the tendency of being friendly with the opposite sex without having the mind of having sex or making love with them(whatever you choose to call it). Don't get me wrong i was not a born again child of God then, so i also had it in mind to have girl friends, but Lizzy was not in my mind all i wanted was somebody i could talk to without strings attached, i want to make a pick but not with the first girl that comes my way.
Lizzy became very attached to me to the extent of sharing personal issues with me , she began by telling me about her family how influential and well to do they are in the society and how terrible a child she has been in that family she gave me the picture of being the black sheep in her family , she said "you will not belive that my parents had a sort of mixed feelings when i gained addnission into the university, as a matter of fact , a family meeting was called over me a day to my departure, my grand mother was there and my father stood up to say that the family name has been built with hard work and honesty, and the family is a respected one in the society,he then pleaded with me not to rubbish all the work done by my escapades in the university,i raelly sincerely promised not to ridicule the family name and that i will face my studies, but unfortunately i have not kept my word"
I then asked her what she has done already knowing fully well that we have just resumed into the university,she said " i have a lot of boyfriends in school already and i have slept with them all" I then realise that her escapades has alot to do with sex. She said to me "do you know why my parents called that meeting?' I said no. "Well i have been a bad girl sexually,i don't stay at home and always going about with different catergories of boy/men,you will be amazed that they do not have to offer me any reward for sleeping with me all they need to do is call me on the phone invite me to any eatery,buy a bottle of soft drink and meat pie and we head for his home and have a good time together, my parents have done all they could , physically, spiritually and more but there has been no changes in me, infact they are completely feed up" I could not believe what i was hearing,she is just 17 with a lot os exploit in sex,i became disappointed even disgusted in her.
Days follow and my attitude towards her change i became insultive towards her, call her names at every little provocation to the extent that she now had to call me, She said "is it because of the things i told you about myself that you have decided to start insulting me? infact i have started regreting my revealing my self to you?' i then realised that i have really been a jerk, ifelt really bad at my actions and promised to change my ways.Suprisingly i did, i became nice to her and our friendship became closer ,i now visit her home and got to know her school friends.I also introduce her to some of my male friends and we still meet in school to talk,but i did not invite her to my place even though i was leaving alone.
I believe she noticed this,because on a particular day in school,she called me aside and said 'i had a dream last nite,it was about you, i dramt that you invited me over to your place made some food for us to eat, and after that you made passionate love with me" i was shocked and all i could do was smile,imagine what other form of invitation do you need from a girl,but i was scared,not with the issues of sexually transmitted diseases all over and imagine,that was the period when HIV was becoming more and more popular and with all her exploits who knows what could happen,with research showing that condom is not 100% safe, i became scared.
I told my friends and you know guys, they encourage me to sleep with her , i was not forth coming she then said " WILL YOU HAVE SEX WITH ME"
TO BE CONTINUED

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